Accept what your child is interested in

Through observing and listening -- over time, learn as much as you can about your child's interests. Think about how can you support him or her in his desire to learn more about his interest – or how she can participate more in her interest? Would it help to visit libraries or bookstores? Or exhibitions? Or visits to places where they practice such activities? Do you know someone, or could you seek out someone who is engaged in the activities or subjects that are of interest to your child? Would they be willing to share how they engage in this interest? By learning about your child's interests and supporting her to pursue them, you are validating your child as a capable person and you are showing respect for what is important to her. This is superior to steering your child in a direction that is connected to your own interests.